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62- Misconceptions about Millennials

The Cure / Aimee Cabo
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November 23, 2019 1:00 pm

62- Misconceptions about Millennials

The Cure / Aimee Cabo

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November 23, 2019 1:00 pm

They're lazy, spoiled and expect everything handed to them! On today's Saturday Edition show, Aimee talks with millennial guests  Adriana Tijerino, Minela Suljicic and Teresa Valencia about their views on the many myths about millennials.

THE CURE Live streamed podcast is hosted by Aimee Cabo and offers a platform of hope to anyone who has experienced domestic violence, abuse, mental illness, any trauma or is experiencing problems now in their lives. It's a place to find comfort, knowledge, strategies, answers, hope and love while healing the wounds and 'affirming' that you are not alone.  

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Aimee Cabo Nikolov is a Cuban American who has lived most of her life in Miami. After many years of healing, finding love, raising a family and evolving her relationship with God, Aimee's true grit and courage led her to pen an honest, thought-provoking memoir. Years of abuse became overshadowed with years of happiness and unconditional love. Now Aimee is the president of IMIC Research, a medical research company, a speaker, radio host and focused on helping others. You can read more about Aimee by  visiting her website.
 
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With Amy, life can bring many difficult situations domestic violence addictions, poverty and even sexual abuse by your loved ones welcome Amy, and the Q you allow me here are the light house last night. This city. I and experience to keep moving forward despite obstacles with the help of God, we do provide testimonials to let people know that they're not alone in this testimony start having my child, the peaceloving young adult. We also have professionals in the field and integration of speakers that are willing to help and give us information because awareness is vital to believe that we all have some to suffer from something as for me, my hearing from God that other forms of healing are present as well said life can be very challenging and always know there's always someone cares that last can't stop the care pipe at Iraq. Sometimes we are misunderstood and with repeated misconceptions over the years. They try to take our voice but there's always choices and some exciting lightning no matter what they are teacher that world knowing that she's always screen. Sometimes we only know our personal experience and what we are fed to the media and our environment and nice thing that makes experiences help us discover realities over time you with a common misconception about and my own experience as a mother I have learned that we cannot allow our personal experience influence future similar situations and is even more evident with we happen to know Gary and me that provided us with a brand-new fresh perspective from the beginning of the millennial.

But we recall the baby millennial rehab. Adriana I is a registered nurse and works as a people research Courtney full-time, full of his and then we also have a lot I and is your original Bosnia and she's the middle part right.

We have to be set up is also research coordinator and yet at the end of the millennial. Right no. We have all three guys, thank you so much for being on the show and the and you for helping you perspective as we have found you guys responsible commanded, always eager to learn. It's still some people don't like to become shouldn't be you don't know many different how no other way and you know that he intentionally and sometimes you get most of the negative stuff gets overlooked. So today I got in gets so your the young millennial start with you on a little bit about yourself experience these to be a person that you are okay love.

I was born here in Miami, Florida. Our all of them so I have family in our I think that's where a lot of my because we were the first me. My brother really present for my family especially like to be born here is a very very Catholic country okay so my my.

Everything was very, I went to that my parents were married there. I had my hair was there so I say that structure and discipline growing up you had chores let you experience consequences. I'm trying to find similarities okay not okay and so how you 25 students.

I was just that was my biggest things going finish school, get will time to get somewhere we can do something with you on the first graduate school and college before me college and then I will to associate degrees and then I'm going you will continue education, health, battery, being next one.

I would constantly think about. I mean there's a lot of things that are said about millennial's from that they're not responsible fairly easy to use the paint I started thinking about it and he said this experience is up going out now my sister is unique. They spend a lot of time doing the setup of my parents. My parents are very strict military style is probably way too. My daughter responsibility that I had growing up, even though you guys are millennial and so one of the theories that I try to think why there's a job in the generation because we don't understand God.

Even though we go through these generation gaps important. We are so similar and even looking at studies that said that a lot of the myths about millennial dispute. It's not that much different from past generation and actually there even doing better now. So a lot of easements or disprove and think that I wanted to say about millennial's, but they can be very now where gonna go to thinking about it, contrary to you.

My upbringing was very independent, lenient.

I was living outside of my house all since I was 14 I went to boarding school and my parents always let me make my own choice. I mean if they make the wrong choice, there would be consequences but they would never tell me what they would always tell me you know the best so and you went to boarding school for many years I went to a high school I went to the capital, and unto here is the liberal college which is the initiative to roll together and most and after that I came to the states for college while so you are very hard work from a long while and and while that's incredible. And where did you learn from Europe from part of I believe is in part from Bobby Ray almost caviar from the Balkans, Europe, and a little bit about it used to be Yugoslavia Balkans went to the war in the 90s were separated into seven different countries variance communism morning were lived in Germany. Okay the war was from 92 to delete okay. You know I did not wonderful.

And now Teresa at the lower end of the manual letter that you might so I passed to be so going on three and wife can bring many difficult situations, domestic violence, addiction, poverty and even sexual abuse by your loved ones. The issue is not stay there, but to overcome all obstacles been shouldered with the love of God, your husband and your family. You can succeed.

Love is the answer. God is the key word reveals baby Cabo's life, a warrior who didn't give up and achieve the dream of her life. You can get to know more about her at her story on God is the key word.com or buying her book on Amazon.com's way, welcome back Michelle yell and show me for Amy's okay here, here we would let her show his purpose.com Jeremy was on my way portions was he described this patient. Generational gap cultural and different that we do we get up the fight, all in vain. But I was tired of stepping into the plane. What makes it all worthwhile laid-off honesty which we are just as human where talking conceptions of happiness to be the most diverse, educated generation of Americans. So when you finish yesterday about your life well so I have my mom so my stage was Jake said he would like a mother.

Mom is happy and how you when you came here when he was 18, I came. My dad already and then after six months I find myself somewhat keen time you got to our yard today so I like meeting since I was 17 and one guys I found being common.

We all one way or another, regardless of the peering style would have noticed that we have in common is that we all somehow sponsored ability and we also were able to suffer the cons.

And here's the thing I realized that my dogs a lot better than making and then I was thinking about factual yes to something walk and discipline.

They have to, you know, please, you know, we don't now though, so here's the thing I'm talking comes close to home yet I'm talking to my sister conversation with my older sister. It tiled teenagers and young doesn't matter what age starts talking.

There talking to me about the particulars very love to learn patience and I was then kind of kind of trying to make ourselves feel better, conscientious, thinking about doing what the child for the person I really because I believe my millennial being who she is. Her eye always ensure that the a big portion mean is just and I know we got here lies by one things kept me in line 1. Anything always watch so rolling can we go to you how it played a part in your legs because millennial urine that staging between being a very responsible goal and drawing out very scary state fish and use believe I'm sending you got a huge transition so I said I was raised Catholic and still being the way it was in my household. Even my brothers. I am liberal person so I tell you the true nature. I was very different but I still do time to time. And I'll pray I rather go my own going to church church so going to mass I mean is, for me it feels like I'm doing more like that. I was I was I was going to listen what you doing I tried very hard to say this but I don't always put it in my life strong zoning Elaine because you're at the point where more and it's you I believe in something funny. For whatever it's worth, I did not play a big role in my life. My family is not religious.

We are very physical. Management parents or teachers.

My professor it was always very structured and utterly and talking a structure want to comment on your earlier statement. I had my day planned out in 15 increments during college I mean I had two jobs and full-time student, so I had to plan everything but it was not religion. I'd like to go to church occasionally its very inspiration. Would you like to say something your okay so I you going to charge but I pray every day they so she went got gold charge. Please let Mark a conversation on yell about what you are Cabo and Boris live here are Amy's purpose.com is your will look at the show is back to the service you wanted by one Republic we can all use a little love. Sometimes like to have someone else's mind, across all generations and cultures we once seen thing in common.

We need to be love treat experiences with an open heart and mind to see things in a better way. When we realize God love shine through. Everyone options it away. We are discussing, and I know the guys they don't need constant, they need constant praise. I know some of them do. Maybe I need a cons. I think that the misconception like from our end comes from you guys, here by money and always been like a stroke. You have that that is in stillness to succeed and that was really hard like that in our generation so here that we we did it right succeeded in something like that. That's what I think were who are people who are too lazy to think like they can't do it and that's where like you have like I'm about positive feedback and wanted millennial's are actually more competitive. Probably because of all the technologies in all the past generation and I can't talk about them all. Another minute they talk about that millennial's are social yet expert. Yes, I want to story yet. So we will computer is Google and that's another thing that I read about the generation gap is that generation fluoride the importance of literate and talking to my grandma and grandpa for those who have those you know they they're not very literally in the computer and so many things that you have to take into account pulses that millennial's face so many more challenges. It's almost as if you guys had to grow faster agree suffer side good in general by my own experience are the only thing I'm young life. I feel that we better write to nurse Michael plus she's out of I think that they how we do everything we feel that we better day to be better person and again social media because you see are doing what they're cheating and you got to be better feel a certain responsibility to set a good example and try to, you know, just by those misconceptions because I mean when you somebody say I'm not really millennial and should be proud of you are you should be proud of where you are and I do understand why the world ever got this appreciation to because he believed because I thought it in my daughter because I read so well know where the situations in other situations, but one thing structure.

This consequences I bet you have from everything responsibilities. I did everything for her and I'm sure this is what you guys your situation and then you can do things for people. When you teach them to do it for themselves is one the most is when you're doing the greatest not to make yourself feel better.

What you think body is generations will will strive to render every part lazy all before one already failed and that's what they can state the problem with stigma society. You know only on intelligence. What were supposed to do what characteristics were supposed to show mean I wonder why the are those things and not want to formulate you. That's what that may almost label discussing label right because a lot of them.

Yes, millennial I mean you guys are generation shouldn't be talking about your shortcomings is perfect. Well I you know one when you can focus on people's there. Yes, the wonderful part have to offer to others because such stories and experiences each have unique role to play in its unique quality that and so that show and wanted people to realize I was talking one time to a Guyana radio show and he said it depends on who your listening but he said no, most people are good thing must why not mean I don't believe that God we have to become good one God, and so on. Just to millennial light the people that they are without labels without judgment.

Look at yourself real life things perfect yourself when you anything credible. I thought after study after study better than keep his generation had been so basically it's just basically what it for those of us who don't have millennial or don't know any better. It's really important. So glad you guys that you guys are the ones in the way and tried to create the perception really is all the body when when you hired to even think about that about that. It was about life can bring many difficult situations, domestic violence, addictions, poverty and even sexual abuse by your loved ones.

The issue is not stay there, but to overcome all obstacles been shouldered with the love of God, your husband and your family. You can succeed. Love is the answer. God is the key word reveals baby Cabo's life, a warrior who didn't give up and achieve the dream of her life. You can get to know more about her at her story on God is the key word.com or buying her book on Amazon.com. This is like at 1 PM Eastern radio here and all shows available. Also, just look for the cure for space we will cover for book show the website Amy's purpose and fill out the server there. The cure your show that you are doing for me just how we are blessed. Some of us can always find trouble, while some of us will get after reading how that's life. You we are were it's human nature. Last talking about about guys you know the answers to know what was okay with mom and dad what you guys think Adriana I see that this show house when I was 23, 22 and have been planning it out. I and 11 319 that is me a I appreciate them so much more now see everything that I think of other people in my car.

They were raised getting a new perspective on life and my I was blessed great parents.

Well, I think they think their content to live with mom and dad because he scared of going out there on dealing with responsibilities from which thing I love being on my own loved responsibilities so you what's your take on it certainly is scary to make that move specially if you hear yourself in another country. It is very difficult not having family here to fall back on, but I do have family so you want double trouble about when I was very young. 13 so I'm used to used to be was well you what you went through boarding school and will outline for those of us that while the first two years that I went. It was pretty difficult. We were allowed to go out once a week only under supervision didn't really have any activities is basically school and it was military style. Almost we had to clean a room every morning before going to school bag without wrinkles in the morning. Make sure to clean exercise yes and then check the rooms before school and I am pretty much every week I will go home on the weekends think that it helped all then for the last two years of high school I actually I rebelled a little but I apply for that hurdle.

The first generation. My parents did not want me to change schools so I applied I got a scholarship and I spent three months of the summer begging my mom to go and that's what I did love your very independent of me. It had curfew but were allowed to actually go out live our lives and that also looked a lot develop my personality integrity and responsibility, ability on the stuff texting Rachel broke with Grant.

Also know about you, Teresa.

Well I'm know you anymore so I was 11, so independent young yes while so myself famous things that we might be one told me where when how yet to learn everything on your own thing out for yourself will something that you think I've only my car myself to learn that and way everything for me. Now that you ate everything. How different levels because there site out to my house and my father house late to go to the patient by my first car. So now I think God for everything that I learned because if I don't pass on maybe Lacey will see you no one misconception. You don't want to be exactly and I understand that you mean it. It's nice not to get to know you and I get to find out if people show up so many guys but there is no marriage for you guys, millennial's don't want to be winners. It was the when we were younger guys are doing better because even more difficult better circumstances. The digital world.

The technical technological advance. You know about the homeowner situation is no, you know, just save them money again.

Also, you want to be in the marriage thing. I think also like to be told what to do it differently. There's a bigger gap now between either get married much in weight and you have your experiences enjoy your you don't want to get married but some people don't and that's okay but that I notice what your priorities lie.

So by him were almost finished today so we only have a few minutes think you being a just to offer a new perspective on the Smith misconceptions solve maybe every year to our audio producer Jasper for being with me and for you. Be treated and happy Thanksgiving. Of course, you must so that Lord help us to because the examples are to love like you.

We pray for our families and friends and neighbors when we interact. We pray for strong marriages for children honor their parents and for the no police we pray for help relationships that glorify and honor God. We pray for the downcast down Trenton all over the world and all across our nation. We pray for our churches, pastors, worship leaders, teachers, brothers and sisters in faith to be the hands and feet.

Finally, we pray for our government and media. The military and our nation.

We pray for leaders who honor and glorify you. God pray for a culture of life and freedom protect women, Lord, any week is for our pure or the website. But show all the server your show show