Anger Management

This is Mike Zwick from if not for God podcast our show stories of hopelessness turned in the hope your chosen Truth Network podcast is starting in just seconds. Enjoy it. Sure it but most of all, thank you for listening and for choosing The Truth Podcast Network. This is the Truth Network welcome to man brought you my DAW CMM talking and walking Christian men's ministry where they are devoted breaking down the walls of race and denomination and challenging men to take their God assigned as our host will hardly Roy Jones Junior, a black guy and a white guy we that man talk radio, podcast, and if you miss last week's show.

You need to go back and listen to it. I think some of you might have to listen to them more than once, but we had Joseph worn on the show and we brought them back this week to talk more about anger and this the seven points six or seven points. He's going to bring out in order for you to redirect this anger and and just get it out of your life and the only way you can do that is you have to submit yourself to the Almighty God. So again, welcome back Joseph Warren. We thank God for you and we just love you for all of the things that you shared up to this point will remastering anger and stress. The brother of you listening now you deal with anger you put down those negative emotion and you're scared to go on the inside and look at what's down there deep in your soil, show you how to get rid of those rocks. Click on that had trash once and for all going to actually God's power in a way never happy for you to get rid of them currently in therapy. This is in counseling. When I got talk about your rocks when I can move them from one side of your backpack to the other and learn the manager cope with your rock or area grievances and blaming complaint do not like God blessed them once and for all, but are about to do it.

Tell me when will fire away. Okay so right now brother as you listening thereof read options in front of you. As far as outlets for your anger and your stress. As men we all deal with anger and stress but nobody teaches us what to do with how we process it were told as will and Roy alluded to, you know, were told to cope with it were told to manage it. But how do you actually do that. And is it even productive to keep and hold onto it would be better to get rid of it for God to heal you from it. So there's three outlets you have the first outlet is many men I was 1 millions of Christian men.

They process their anger by yelling at their wife and kid more often than they like and and then afterwards they feel guilt and shame because they know it's wrong and they know these are the people they love most, but they didn't know how else, or where else to serve directed, so eventually the inner volcano exploded and came out the side and hurt the people I love them because they feel the guilt and shame some of them can even apologized for their wife and kids because they know they're only going to do it again next week or tomorrow so this is where most men find themselves even good Christian faithful man and then the second outlet for anger and this is something a lot of men don't consider the reason why were so angry. Not just because of no stress in our life but it's mostly from out of feeling out of control in the areas of our life where we're being complacent in some areas, you know, they're just outside your control is nothing to do about it.

But then there are those other areas of our lives that we look at him like I really should be doing this, I should start this right should stop doing this because my addiction I shared with right massive sex addiction right and and that made me angry. I feel so out of control like so you have that outlet of you know, just pestering is festering on the inside to what I said to men is another outlet for your anger from complacency in your life where you're not doing what you want to do in your and your you know you're not stopping what you should be stopping is for you to actually project the anger righteous anger, which is good. Anger project righteous anger at the enemy and his evildoers. As you watch evil spreading across society right now, and new laws being changed in past that you disagree with that go against your faith in the kingdom of God and you stay silent. That buildup is anger in a man because he is being passive rather than fighting like a warrior that is made to be a prince of the son of God. I so you can project your anger in a healthy way and fight the enemy in his evildoers. However, the best the best outlet for anger is to surrender your anger to God, but how you do that nobody teaches us how to do that. So here are the seven steps remastering anger and stress progress. Your listening. Step one. I would've advised to take notes if your notetaker is you want these step one is outrageous. Ownership outrageous ownership. This means that I or you take extreme ownership of the life that you created. No one else is to blame your face and embrace the consequences of all your past decisions to present decisions and future decision not going to try to escape your life ever again. That means no more smoking pot, alcohol, sex porn is a pacifier's pick of my little babies a month old. My little son. Any thoughts on a pacifier to still to when he does not control his outburst his emotions. We have millions of adult men walking around with pacifiers in the amount rather than giving these anger's wages to God's outrageous ownership. You gotta take ownership of all your decisions and your mast and then number two step to radical responsibility. This means that you will lean into your life and do whatever it takes to create workability in all areas of your life and that you accept that no one is coming to save you.

No one is coming to save you. You have one Savior is Jesus Christ. And he expects your participation in your own life if you've created the masses in your life and your you're ready to take ownership of that and you have to take radical responsibility as well that it's on you to go to God and bring all that mess to him asked for forgiveness, repent, give it to him and then asking to take over. Step three loving leadership, loving leadership leadership. I have a three word definition for real leadership. It applies to business personal all areas, success, money, leadership means you go first. You go first to be a spiritual leader in your home brother you hear from the pulpit all the time. The pastor saying you got spiritually in your home you like.

I don't know well looks like you going first. That means you got rocks in your soil brother that God wants out.

You gotta go first and let God do the heart surgery on you before you start correcting your wife and your children. You go first and scariest confronting to look on the inside as you know, like the darkness within, but you gotta go first.

So loving leadership means that you're going to put yourself at risk. Not your wife not your kids not your parents not your siblings not your friend not your employees. You're going to take the arrows and you going to do it today. That's loving leadership brother, so that step three step four. How we how my doing gentleman is absolutely great. All right.

Step four gentlemen's spiritual surrender, spiritual surrender, we spoke about it earlier. This means that you give total and complete control over your business and your money brothers and your family the God given all of it. That means no more white knuckle – cripple control you little control freaks on one of you, I get it little control freak is very successful in business but it destroys your home life. It destroys your relationship with God to you. Gotta relinquish control to God is the only one in control of the universe. Look at the pandemic is evident right spiritual surrender means that you are only responsible.

This is a game changer for your life. This will set you free brother. He let it you are only responsible for your actions and your interactions.

All outcomes and results belong to God, not you limited again brother, your only responsible for your actions or inactions in your life, all outcomes of those actions and inactions. All results belong to God, not you stop playing God in your life. Stop trying to manipulate the outcomes of the meeting today. Stop trying to manipulate the results of that conversation with your wife to get her to agree with you and you what you want. Stop it. Gotta spiritually surrender all the outcomes and results to God when you do this when I did this I was just for a man. I was like a pile of rocks came off my shoulders. I still had to do the action or stop doing the thing right man.

The outcome results. I didn't have to worry about God would deliver those in his timing. Step five old beliefs bold believe this means that you place all your trust unreservedly in God's providence and biblical promises. You believe that the King of the universe is your father, and he is faithful. Therefore, it is unreasonable brother unreasonable for you to doubt complain or worry about your future, your family's future is unreasonable. If you truly believe that the King of the universe is your father, and he runs the universe and he loves you and he has only plans for good and not for hard for you, then it's unreasonable for you to doubt complain and worry. You know, Joseph, that that such a blessing on that on the last point you were talking about, you know about because I think me and when we lose control. We have a tendency to want to attempt to figure out how we want the in result to be. But if we yield over to the spirit of God, then we those outcomes that whatever happened, it won't be our predetermined outcomes. It we won't be how we are leaving people down the road and God will in turn do those miraculous things in our life to ensure and let us know that he's the one that's govern our actions event which is really God wants you to take action on the areas that is prompting you right here is where you need to clean up or when you run out of your own strength and you still have not attained the result is exactly where God wants you, brothers exactly where he wants you place a spiritual surrender to say, God, my strength is insufficient. I need yours, create a miracle in this area of my life I've exhausted all my strength in options and possibilities. I don't know what to do.

I give it to you take over. I give you permission to take over.

You know God's waiting for absolutely and you know he reminds me and reminds me we got 30 seconds with reminds me of Gideon.

You know, and you got to meet a man what did you got to maybe even about absolutely in NC. He wanted Gideon to understand that when you get down to the amount of people that you think can do the job.

That's when I come in and take over and you will know that I'm involved will be right back after this WC MM would love to have you join their community of men for breakfast every first, third and fifth Friday of every month, Bible discussions and fellowship at the best breakfast in town meeting location is in their gracious host for First Christian Church in Kernersville, 1130 N. Main St. in Kernersville.

It all starts at 630 and they have a hard stop at 8 o'clock. First time visitors eat for free. Join your host will Hardy and Roy Jones Junior, a black guy and a white guy, welcome back Lance also called the first half of this Joseph warns us to good stuff. Seven steps on how to handle anger in the I'm sure every man listening and sure many women listening to have had to deal with this in the past, great Kelsey given here Joseph. We thank you so much for joining us for week two will let you pick it back up your Joseph I think you got to step seven values in step five. Talk about bold logs are given ahead of the times I would talk about bold believe you got Gideon and got to the got to the cut off for Joseph. We have a good job on this urban so good to have you back with us and that will let you piggyback up the in the bold and the beliefs and then the step six and seven on his back. After the show here today you got a black guy you got a why I do have a great guy you will write so we left off with the steps by which is bold believe rage is really leaning into God's biblical promises and is not putting God to the test but is putting his promises to the task right and in knowing that he is faithful and he wants to give you these gotta believe that he actually will write and believe that is a good father. All right. Step six.

Step six brothers and been waiting patiently. Thank you for that powerful powerful perseverance, powerful perseverance.

This means brother that you will wait patiently on the Lord to bring you his best and as you wait you will be brave and courageous, trusting that God will not fail you because you actually realize and believe that you receive God's best, you must pass the test to receive God's best, you must pass the test. So every time you being tested your being stretched and you got allow the stretching and it hurts and it's painful and during the storm and you're looking at the wind in the ring in the water and Jesus is saying look at me, look at may persevere to staff right so powerful perseverance.

We give up way too quickly absent when it comes to God. Absolutely we you know when it's it's difficult enough to align with God's will in our lives as men difficult enough, and very few of us ever do. But when even the one that you then is another prerequisite got asked for.

You must align with God's will and you must align with God's timing is timing.

I like how slow God sometimes has little control for dry and we we we want immediate gratification yesterday like God I don't like how long you taken.

And honestly I don't agree with the way you're doing this thing in my life. So I'm going to take back the wheel and natural we do when we steal from God that is not recommended. Brothers absolutely not recommended so powerfully persevere and wait on the Lord's time. It will just what I do in between. Well, the Bible verse says it wait patiently on the Lord.

Be brave and courageous. Yes, wait patiently on the Lord. It is a twice gross little control. And in the military, bravery and current courage to wait on God to move mountain while used to sit and be still breakneck pace, bravery and courage somehow. Hope your perseverance and finally, brothers, we made it to the end. Step seven is your expectation eager expectation. This means that you expect only good things from God because your is on and he loves you.

You expect miracles because you believe that everything is possible with God and that you can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens you. Let go. You have to have that childlike eager expectation that God is going to do something big in this area after you give surrender all control to him, and you boldly believe you will and you powerfully wait on his timing and persevere. Now you got expect the big thing right and when you put all seven of these together was doing quick recap we got outrageous ownership we got radical responsibility, loving leadership, spiritual surrender, bold, believe powerful perseverance eager expectation.

These are the seven steps to master your anger and stress and you know Joseph that when I was that was some wonderful information because the one that really resonates with me is the way talk about the radical responsibility and the spiritual surrender and I think when man we are not getting into the word of God on a daily basis. Now what were doing is we end up starving our spiritual man and because that spiritual man needs to eat. He needs to eat just like we feed the natural body and so when he starved he become frail, just like if we were to go on a hunger strike with our natural bodies.

We we go frail and all of a sudden we don't have any strength we can reason you know we start getting confused. You know, because were lacking nourishment. The body is calling for certain things.

Just like the spiritual man is calling for certain things and reminds me of first Corinthians chapter 2 when when God says that that individual out there. He or she, whoever they may be, and we talk about a man now that you as a man need to be able to understand when God is speaking so you have to exercise spiritual discernment and when you exercise that spiritual discernment God he opens up to you and gives you exactly what you need in the time that you needed when you are talking about, you know, things that you are going through. As a as a boy and a lot of us have gone through some of those things as a man you know in and in development and we still have not conquered it so listener, you need to listen go back, listen to this podcast the seven steps that Joseph is presenting to us and let the spirit of God speak to you don't get in a hurry. Let the word of God just like you put that steak in some marinade and you learn that steak marinade you let this information marinade with the spirit because we're here for you and God wants you to be the absolute best that you can possibly be in this time in this place in your life. That's great. Will Joseph, one of the things it comes to mind was when you're speaking few steps back by complacency and anger when you're not doing the things you know you're supposed to be doing. Anger and that that really resonated when he said that current thinking is sometimes my frustrations come in the particular situation maybe is not situation but is because something that hasn't gotten done there that should've done is weighing on my mind and then something else triggers it really shouldn't of triggered and that I thought those great points of folks are there and begin the procrastination. The complacency of not doing the things that you noted the need to be done.

If you get those things done so as to another trigger that's off the table right so you don't have to worry about that certain something off because you sway them weighing heavy on the job done. I thought those breakpoint absolutely. And God has given each and every one of us who are in the body of Christ. He has given us gifts of the spirit and every one of you listening if you been in Christ for any period of time you have a spiritual gift and you need to be open to the spirit so that he can show you how when why you are using that spiritual gift and it's all for number one. His glory and number two for the edification of the body of Christ, and that means to build up and to let those individuals who are individual members in their body be fruitful because it all comes back to giving God the glory, no glory for you all the glory to God. Joseph, one thing that we got just a few moments you want to ask if I remember seeing your picture on your podcasts of the broken Catholic and I just want to see if you could, if I remember that correctly. If you could give me little bit insight to what that was about God for a minute or two here. Regarding the topic as well right so I shed in the previous episode of my life was a mess when I was in control of it. When I finally gave it to God and totally surrendered and took the seven steps that I have given your presented here today. Today everything is change my fate, my family, my finances are thriving. Praise be to God. I dose to top 100 podcasts hundreds of thousands of downloads and tracking for millions right now. I wanted them to business show that we teach entrepreneurship how to make six figures in 12 months for Christian entrepreneurs and in the second you brought up is broken Catholic and praise God that become the number one podcast on iTunes for Protestants and Catholics, which goes back to I think hundred and one of your commercials. Your tagline outside of race and denomination right will one body of Christ, and I believe the enemy. A house is divided 0/120,000,000 Protestants and Catholics in the United States today, and because were fighting each other instead of fighting the enemy and his evildoers right. This is why evil is spreading. This is why darkness is overtaking some of the white because one when I stood in with God the father and letting him remove and glass to smithereens.

All the rocks in our soil right as managers individual so that we can go out now and be fertile and fruitful. You can't be fertile and fruitful.

If you got rocks in your soil. You have rocky ground and this is the step most of us skip best man because we don't know if the blind spot so that's what I'm hoping to shed light on today that brother. You got rocks in your soil. You gotta get them out first before you go out and start evangelizing otherwise the enemy will make a field day of you right because she's going to use those rocks and weaknesses in those addictions and he's going to eventually, no matter how high you get is going to make you come tumbling down. This is why you see so many men at the top.

Good preachers and pastors all to sin) and then just you know things and and God takes bigotry that right. The church state for that and people run away until I see that you call that a Christian so we have to show up as authentic man, that means we go. First we got a go under the knife so to speak with God.

The heart surgeon and let them heal what is broken inside of us, a man Joseph give your website one more time.

Yes, for sure. So broken Catholic.com is the podcasts first 100 changes the business podcasts but what I get you gentlemen as I get to be an elite men's coach for a Christian husband and dad and business owners that are typically doing, six, seven or eight figures in the businesses that selling it, but they going all miserable, angry, stressed, and I helped them go from that place of happiness and rocks in this soil I bring God's power and I give them access to it the same way I did it did with me.

I given the tools that work practically in their lives. This is you know Wu stop or anything like that any man can do this and I can teach them how to blow those up and you can get more information on floor blocks.com and I want to give you guys listening my book repurposed.com repurposed book.com if you want to learn how to love these rocks on your own. Go there cover. The book you cover the shipping repurposed book.com. Praise God, we thank God for Joseph.

We got about the listen 30 seconds left so we just want to say Joseph that this is been a very rewarding experience, Joseph, and we trust that God will continue to bless Ian into your life. Join us next time. For man talk radio podcasts as we wrap up today show. Be assured that TA W CMM talking and walking Christian men's ministry is building a community of men Christ followers with a desire to be servant leaders in their homes, communities, churches and work environments. Check out our website for upcoming events and regularly scheduled meetings is a note for topics to would like to have us visit in the future. Thank you for joining us on man talk today. Visit us at www.tawcmm.com men walking the talk. This is the Truth Network