The Problem With Pornography

This is the Truth Network welcome commands on brought you by DAW. CM is talking and walking Christian men's ministry were there devoted to breaking down the walls of race, age, challenging them to take their God assigned as our host will Hardy and Roy Jones Junior, a black guy and a white guy. Welcome back to video call our listeners and you know we ended last week show we still have Lieut. Gen. Jerry Boykin with us and Nikita Karloff, the Russian nightmare. So we ended last week's show Roy. We were talking about how pornography has affected our society so and we were talking off the air and generally brought up some comments in reference to a book you have read, so if you want to pick that back up and in reference to that discussion and the name of the booking and what that book basically entails and what were dealing with today. Like 81 years ago, the US wrote a book called naked, they were telling us exactly what they were going to take over America like a Marxist God will one of the things are said they were going to do about holography as a member right and the idea behind it was to get Benedict to destroy families is the most important structure in the American society is the family. In fact, family and about all for example same-sex marriage, and I will also for the family as they were going to easy divorce, that would help to destroy the family so there was the story the family for the fabric of American society as a whole. And when you look at what in that 61 year since I wrote that book, but they could come. It is starting in part I would say almost reference room sounds like a playbook for some of our Congress sums the past and loud happening pornography in the state's sake of free speech controls will not to is absolutely ridiculous while also so amazing. Jerry boys are so over the previous program.

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At nine years old, but you never have. While Christ comes in his life and heal the wound is impeccable but it never held more like triple just to check real quick just to solidify those points, you know, when you got €1.02 030 plane and iPads in 5 to 6-year-olds playing on cell phones and an inmate playing games or what, but they're smart enough I've learned with with seven and grandchild on the way smart enough to know even even watch one grandson, and that when he was year and 1/2 old.

Navigating the self knowing what buttons to push and and and and pop and things pop up right. Still another strategy right taking keywords that kids dialing on and attaching pornography to your point. Everybody's point in exposing them as is Gen. Borges at the fingertips like today's world and its top is talk of the sense of monitoring that because there are many times pop-ups running. So anyway yeah it's it's we just need to we borrow we need to pray the prayer list and you need to be look at your kids phones designing and putting the software on the computers you know there's triple X nothing first covenant eyes and numerous things out there with may not be 100%. They will or will catch quite a few of the opportunities that these young men and young women are trying to get up to the absolute and it'll stop and also send reports.

Don't be afraid to grab the kids phones or computers and blow the stuff up future better future generations ahead of them are count on you to be a responsible man take a stand do something about. And so we want to move right now Roy into the yes yes still a work in an exciting book coming out the scoring. And would you share a little bit about that with us and then nothing nuclear to start the work on the new one next year as well so will let you know about that perfect timing was and I think I think it might actually be about men for member correctly. Title of the book is called man subtitle is rediscovering masculinity in the computer world publisher called me after he had read the manuscript you're going get your butt over the countercultural right world exactly what lowlight work order what people say amen to that man is not just all Scripture is book called meant the five things in their community the church there were family will be five things are defender, a provider, a chaplain, a professor which means that they've got to know the Bible to office, etc. and then there a bottle body. Every man needs of bottle you need somebody in his why he couldn't talk about most peers that you have the most lasting problem you know that my bottle body do whatever I can do whatever it 20 years, the greatest man ever written, tender warrior, but I can tell him anything and he will tell me anything and we play for each other what I've got a really what I call and the will of Allah. We can together, but I just thought with two hours ago, you know, we we strengthen each other so a man needs to be a bottle body. Some of the got needs. That guy is like most relationships are not developed overnight relationships are developed over time and the fact is most men don't have a bottle body, but that got a relationship that goes by Glover Tuckman early right general is the loneliness factor afraid to say I need somebody to come alongside of me and takes back to the courage point yet have the courage to say I can't do it alone and in the point of talking last week about loneliness and and encourage you know what's a plan of there is an ultimate enemy out there comes kill and destroy destroy the family destroy the individual and one of his tactics that I have found is is the loneliness it if I can I buy can get the man isolated.

I get that person isolated and making him feel alone may not even be alone soon as we hear people in a crowded room and yet feel all alone crowded room to just a tactic of the enemy of of isolating people by isolating them, and then instilling that loneliness feeling in them sound like the general's book is is perfect. Perfect timing for what we need it in this attack on masculinity. Perfect timing is great, especially given what was to send in the marketplace will talk about this thing changes in the will eligible look like your insight into change with the Hallmark Channel with resolve and go one direction back to the other direction. We saw Troy move, change position relating to steno biblical standards rightly and I think is because of the public pressure that everything's going on. It's I think what we need to talk about too long was on his minutes okay standing standards. It's okay to share your faith in my general so the previously thought to be in your face about it, but it's okay to share your faith and live it out. So men will see a difference in your life so that they will what part of what you've got no different than the world. Then there is no need for them to even ask right so because it was seen at I think when it comes to man to it's always that trust factor, you know, man, man, opening up and saying if I open up to this man. Can I really trust him with the information that I am saying to him because oils always he's going to split my business all over the place is just is just that man factor.

You know, if you will will will you not been through enough movies together. You heard me talk about. I know you talked about should general you done the same to Nick. We can we conferences confidentiality is vital. It's a critical element of that that battle buddies.

The general was talking about it if I can't can't trust you to keep confidential, and then there's a problem and if it's gets out. It could, we could lose that person for lifetime with well transparency right vulnerability in unfortunately in some cases, you know, Dave. Dave opened up but then been the key word is resident in me is the word betrayal is simply trade which then shuts them down and go I okay I ever do that again. I have no other battle buddy ever again. Social media has those of you know me well know, I thought about social media and this is one of Satan's greatest tools could be one of God's greatest opportunities but it's one of Satan's greatest tools because of my focuses on the negative and that's where the stuff gets crazy, people forget about the dispersed whole things to the best supposed to be a man of your word because it's okay all day long to get distracted me. Maybe a slipup or whatever and also he revealed something should never reveal full command spirit and well you know you know there about what standard for this kind of battle buddy relationship. Well about David about about Dr. Laura and Caleb, and here's to all bottle buddy. They were the only 212 people that want to find out they will come back with the concept, exactly, if you will have about let's start from CMM love to have you join their community of men for breakfast every first and third Friday of every month, Bible discussions and fellowship. After the breakfast in town meeting location is in every system posterior First Christian Church in 1130 N. Main St. incarnate him a hard start at 7 o'clock on a hard stop at 8 o'clock.

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I came in the Volterra right after. Just as America was coming out of the right here was a huge issue that will let you know lots of things going all the could be tied back that said, I grew up in a race in New Bern, North Carolina. But it was a racist environment.

It was, you know, the Jim Crow laws work like birds seriously and I came into the boat. That is something that I had to overcome myself because I was go be part of the snow. I had to overcome you go through that overnight you.

You have to work at. You have to be objective and you have to put your effort in accepting people what they are with white black and declaration. You've got to put yourself in a situation where you just ask what they are and you know anybody that says that we don't have a right I think they're bearing and we do have a right that is not what it was when I was growing up is not what it was in the 60s. I watch I want civil rights movement, and I will write about what I saw there by way after I left all my dad adopted the black helpmate to overcome quickly any racist notions I had, but it cleared in the military. The way you do things we talked about this part of this is that it stopped the conversation. And thank you so much for sharing it because it make a good point. You don't overcome it overnight.

You don't break learned behaviors or tall behaviors overnight to pursue. You got to pursue that forgiveness and pursue that overcoming A sabbatical sodomizing conflict. Think about well I wish it wasn't the way it is, without being a person of action and I think one of the things we was meant to do back to standing on the sidelines long enough to get good part about it.

Want to do something different with the not the not stepping out and we talked about this in will you and I many times if we just take the first step in the natural thing God can do amazing things in the supernatural alongside of us and behind us and through us.

But if we never take those steps were not willing to take a head-on and is never going to get correct. Well you now I want to switch in and asked Nikita in Yuma during your time as wrestling, you know, during those early years did you encounter no racial bias I think is prevalent everywhere affected to the point. I think we all are aware still to this day the most segregated hour in America is 11 o'clock on Sunday mornings exactly those who are unaware of that still exist today for a variety of reasons. They guys but that said, I mean it's it's everywhere in wrestling like if you watch professional wrestling like it was my error on the 80s and early 90s and I know even prior to that was there was some some successful black professional wrestlers but they were kind of uniform between and it was interesting as I observed it's the if someone got what we called a push you like it if they said it would take to push a Ron Simmons, for example, the interesting dynamic was in. This is true on both sides of the fence guys can get a chip on the shoulder.

For whatever reason, right field have to prove themselves and and it seemed like the black athlete that excelled in professional wrestling was the one who didn't have a chip on his shoulder like he has something to prove but you just embrace the opportunity and therefore became a world champion like a Ronson who if the folks are out there unfamiliar with him excelled. The diversity excelled at the professional level in football and in professional wrestling was there and it was there it was. It was known just as well. Well I guess and I was a young person when the desegregation started as it ended up I was my home.

My housing that I was home that they had bought in the been very close to government-subsidized housing. So which is predominantly black time. So basically that is a pocket got moved out to a county school district because are trying to balance the racial populations of the schools. So for me that John school bus form and everything.

Impressive play football not a lot different than military one side of each other every day running together all those things you become one.

So you not that your brother that's the way you look at it but it was a different with the house much like what talk about order and not end here are some stories and some of the men of color shared even today, as we talked about shows the general will have to share that with you and see you but some stories have been heart-wrenching is grown men are expensive stuff today even just stoplights people walking down the street. Those sorts of things. Things that you thought worth 40 years ago still going on it's it's still is to publish it. What would you call government government would you cause I was about thousand call it that when I grew up with the project predominantly black government serves as to this day would come to secular music is motel and always will be set. I don't have out there was summarized by saying this on my Jesus comes back ultimate solution to all of this until Jesus comes.

That's right that's right but the one place in the house and top journal to agree with this.

We can make a difference. Sure, the church and start taking these things seriously get outside the walls of all to go to churches that have a interracial enter on the racial audience because it may be that the people there got the all in the now. I think that it's up to the church delete the way mother would never walk probably church. The church came out in the second great awakening began to go boldly against and violate those who don't know there were actually churches. It will pass black pastors of Northeast during that period and it was the church about the church that can bring about this reconciliation reconciliation is not like I remember you know what made whelming black brothers come down here to the altar. Well, okay, that is not going to achieve great racial reconciliation. One, I can go wash your feet will watch her. It doesn't include all of my bed all by my previous right about that is not going to achieve racial filiation, exactly, is got the developing a relationship with you and making that relationship really some kind away where I understand you are you understand me until I got a call at about broccoli. I left Jimmy Boykins just can't take on the quick interesting dynamic. A tale of two churches to go to New York works.com read a phenomenal story about a young Jewish lady racial reconciliation between my home church, the refuge in the church in Greensboro well until two churches. Churches will be released again man-to-man man what you would preorder now. It will likely be impressed on 14 April okay Amazon already have Christmas 2000 today show. Be assured that TA W CMM talking walking Christian men's ministry is building a community of men Christ followers with a desire to be servant leaders in their homes, communities, churches and work environments.

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